Category: Motivation

Humanity can be defined as quality of being human; the peculiar nature of man, by which he is distinguished from other beings. Being human does not mean that an individual possesses humanity. Humanity means extending unconditional love to each and every living being on Earth.

We see, hear, feel and experience numerous inhuman things, that somewhere we’ve lost hope, somewhere we’ve conditioned ourselves that this situation will never change and that it can never be resolved. I’ve had such a mindset too a while ago, but as I grew with time and as I evolved to the person I’m today, in this journey I realized that criticism and being upset about things is not going to solve them and change them.  

Everything that exists on this planet has started from someone, it exists because someone made an effort to make/do it to bring it into existence. BE THAT SOMEONE. It all starts from one person. Be the change. Be the inspiration for others. Be the influencer to others. Be a teacher for others. Be a lesson for those who are rough and do misdeeds. Be as human as possible.

Procrastination is the act of putting off work for no particular reason. It is one of the main barriers blocking you from getting up, making the right decisions and living the dream life you’ve thought of. People regret more the things they haven’t done than the things they have done.

To overcome procrastination:

Step 1: Recognize That You’re Procrastinating
Step 2: Work Out WHY You’re Procrastinating
Step 3: Adopt Anti-Procrastination Strategies

– Forgive yourself for procrastinating in the past
– Commit to the task
– Promise yourself a reward after finishing the task
– Ask someone to check up on you
– Act as you go(finish your work as soon as you receive/get it)
– Rephrase your internal dialog(I need to/have to finish it)
– Minimize distractions
– Aim to complete the work that you find least interesting, first
– Keep a To-Do List
– Prioritize your To-Do List
– Become a master of scheduling and project planning
– Tackle the hardest tasks at your peak times
– Set yourself time-bound goals
– Use task- and time-management apps.

We being humans only focus on what went wrong with us, what we lack, what we could not have, trust me I’ve the same tendency too. But someone told me people only remember the bad deeds and and never even consider the good, and that’s because the bad deeds and the bad experiences hurt and we make them so big, give them so much power that the good deeds, good people and all the good stuff in our lives suddenly becomes less in front of everything else.

If we need a good, content, happy life, we need to let go of the thoughts of what our lives are supposed to look like. We need to let go of all the judgements and opinions of other people. We need to let go of the anxiety for our future, let go of the worry about what will happen next or what will be do next. We need to let go of all the negativity that surrounds us or is inside us. Because happiness comes in waves, it’ll come to you time and again you just need to learn to accept it with open arms, and open heart.

Happiness is enjoying the littlest of the little things in life. Happiness is independence, freedom from your own negative thoughts, emotions and experiences. Happiness is forgiving people, for what they’ve done to you. Happiness is acceptance. Happiness is being grateful.

I’ve seen people holding onto the past, going back to their previous lives, crying over what has already been done and can never be changed, being mad/angry over things that are not currently happening and so much more. I totally get it, that it is not easy, not at all easy but IT IS NOT IMPOSSIBLE.!

I want to tell you that everyone comes into your life to teach you something. To give you a lesson, an experience, which will serve you life long. And when that something is learnt by you, the people who came as a teacher for you either leave after their part is done or stay to teach you more of the life lessons. And when the people leave, it’s for your own good that their part has been done in your life.

Type your paragraph here.While someone more deserving and better is on their way into your life, to teach you, to make you understand things, that you need for your life to be the best of it to live, on this planet.