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Happiness is a Choice

Happiness is a Choice

There can be numerous things going on in your life, rough, harsh, crazy things. You can either be drawn away with them or you can wait, take a deep breath and be happy that you’re alive, you could take a deep breath, you’ve a home where you’re sitting right now, you’ve sofas, chairs, stools, etc. to sit, oh and then you’ve a perfect body, the joints that are folded and rotated while you’re sitting. If you go on counting the things you could be happy for, you’ll be amazed, as the list is never ending.

We being humans only focus on what went wrong with us, what we lack, what we could not have, trust me I’ve the same tendency too. But someone told me people only remember the bad deeds and and never even consider the good, and that’s because the bad deeds and the bad experiences hurt and we make them so big, give them so much power that the good deeds, good people and all the good stuff in our lives suddenly becomes less in front of everything else.

Happiness is a Choice
Happiness is a Choice

If we need a good, content, happy life, we need to let go of the thoughts of what our lives are supposed to look like. We need to let go of all the judgements and opinions of other people. We need to let go of the anxiety for our future, let go of the worry about what will happen next or what will be do next. We need to let go of all the negativity that surrounds us or is inside us. Because happiness comes in waves, it’ll come to you time and again you just need to learn to accept it with open arms, and open heart.

Happiness is enjoying the littlest of the little things in life. Happiness is independence, freedom from your own negative thoughts, emotions and experiences. Happiness is forgiving people, for what they’ve done to you. Happiness is acceptance. Happiness is being grateful.

Happiness is a Choice

Happiness is all the good, content, healthy and beautiful things/feelings/emotions that you could imagine of in the world. Happiness is being responsible for your own experience. Happiness is not out there, it’s in you.!!!

You feel you’ve nothing to do? Be happy, and trust me all of your problems will be solved, all your worries will be gone, all of your anxiety will be resolved. True happiness will change our life for good. Being happy wouldn’t mean that our life is perfect, but it means that we’ve decided to look beyond imperfections. And that’s where we win the battle of life just by being happy.

People are usually as happy as they make up their mind to be. The key to be so is we shall stop living in the past and stop depending on others. Our happiness depends on ourselves and our actions. So just be happy with what you have and be excited about what is to come your way.!!!

Happiness is a Choice