It is easy to fall into the habit of condemning others, even those we love the most. We criticize the way someone eats or the manner in which they speak. We focus on the minutest details and find faults with the smallest of the issues. But what we focus on grows. And if we keep focusing on the small weaknesses in someone, it will continue to grow in our minds until we perceive it to be a big problem in that person.?
A time would come that we will start seeing that person as a lowly being because of our mind criticizing them at all times and in all ways, which will ultimately be the beginning of the end of our relationship with them. We are all human beings, we all fall in traps, the traps of life which make us go deeper and deeper into being the victim of negativity. ?
We start assuming things and scenarios which are not even true and which will not even be happening. But based on these negative assumptions we start judging people, we start calling them out, we start to somewhere hate them without even realizing how and what all this would affect the other person and us at the same time.?
To live a happier, more peaceful life, we need to begin to see that the richness of our society comes from its diversity. What makes relationships, communities and countries great are not the things that we have in common but the differences that make us unique.?
Every person you meet, every friend you make, every relationship you get into, every acquaintance of yours has their own good-s and bad-s, all of them carry baggage including you, yourself . Rather than looking for things to criticize in those around you, let us just begin to respect each other’s differences. ?
